Question 1

Can I attend alone?

Accepted Answer

Of course! The idea of our events is to MEET new people – whether it is someone special – or new friends along the way!

Question 2

What happens at the events?

Accepted Answer

It’s just like a normal bar but filled with single people! Our events don’t include speed dating, name tags or questionnaires. We have hosts on the night to guide icebreakers and encourage mingling, but we keep things natural—creating an old-school, organic way to meet singles!

Question 3

How should I dress?

Accepted Answer

Dress like you are going on a first date in a bar

Question 4

What do Early Bird / 2nd Release tickets mean?

Accepted Answer

Early Bird tickets reward people who book early and help us manage numbers.
Sometimes Early Bird tickets are limited and sell out well in advance; other times they remain available. Later releases are the same event and experience — just a higher price for booking closer to the date.

Question 5

Can I attend if I’m outside the age group?

Accepted Answer

Yes — age ranges are a guide only.
Bracketed events (e.g. 25–35, 35–45): we allow a 5-year buffer either side.
“Over” events (e.g. Over 30, Over 40, Over 50): no upper age limit.
If you’re unsure, feel free to reach out before booking.

Question 6

I saw someone at the event but didn’t get their details — can you help?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Email us with the event name and a brief description. We’ll reach out on your behalf — and only if they consent, we’ll pass on details.

Question 7

Why do the comments and likes look one-sided on social media?

Accepted Answer

Likes and comments don’t reflect attendance.
Men and women often see different ads, and one group may engage more publicly while the other books quietly. Attendance is based on ticket sales, not social engagement.

Question 8

How do you balance out the gender ratios ?

Accepted Answer

We monitor ticket sales closely and pause sales for one gender if one gender sells a lot more than the other.

Question 9

Are your events queer friendly ?

Accepted Answer

Yes they are — we have LGBTQ+, Gay, Lesbian & Bi-Sexual specific events.

Question 10

I bought a ticket but can't attend anymore. What do I do ?

Accepted Answer

Tickets are non-refundable, however you can transfer them or get a credit for a future event of your choice.

Melbourne | Singles Event | Slate Bar | Thursday 24th September | 50 & Over

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