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PolyFInda App Party.... this Wednesday!

About this event

Are you interested in polyamory, open relationships, swinging and other forms of ethical non-monogamy?

PolyFinda is a dating, friendship and events app for people who like to have more than one.

Prior to lockdowns we ran lots of amazing events in Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane.

Most are on hold now but we're not going to let to these restrictions stop us flirting and making new friends and lovers!

Every Wednesday night, we're having an App Party, until the lockdowns end.

How Does It Work?

PolyFinda is using it's app like a virtual bar! In some ways it's even better than a bar. This Wednesday night from 7 till 9pm we all get on the app at the one time, to chat, flirt and make private video calls. Usually, video chat is a paid feature on the app but from 7 till 9 on Wednesday night it will be free. So, if your text chat goes well, maybe take it to the next level by video.

Better Than a Bar?

Nothing compares to a live experience but the PolyFinda App Party has some advantages over a regular bar night. For example:

-If you're part of a couple looking for a female you can set it so only female type genders are in the bar.

-If you’re a male looking for another male you can set it so only males are in the bar.

-If you’re very attractive, you can set it so you don’t get hit on all night and are only approached by people who you like.

-If you’re shy, you can add your name to the Hot List so it’s more likely someone will message you.

This can solve a lot of problems some of us often have at a real bar. Mostly though, attending these events is likely to find you more friends and lovers who you can add to your LIKES list. When face to face events return, you'll already have lots of people to play with.

Before The Event

1) Install the app at and get used to how the app works. Click APP TIPS button and play around with some of the functionality.

2) Click the EVENT button and mark yourself as "Going" in either of the events located in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Adelaide and Perth.

3) Click MATCH AND CHAT and you'll see all the members near your location. Green dot means they are online.

4) Click the green SEARCH FILTER button to remove any gender types you are not interested in chatting with. However, we encourage you to use this app to make friends. Other dating apps do the 'swipe right', go on a blind date and hope for the best. PolyFinda is more about using the app to make friends and attend events where potential dates might emerge in a more natural way.

5) If during the event you are receiving too many messages then adjust your setting to only receive messages from people you've LIKED with the heart button.

6) Remember to use the heart shaped LIKE button when you find a person you connect with. They will end up in a list of people you like, so it's easier to find chat with them later.

7) On the top right of each profile is a little green video icon. If you've already been chatting with this person by text then maybe you can start a video chat session by mutual agreement. Please do not send video invites to random strangers.

8) Receiving videos can be switched off in SETTINGS if you're being pestered too much with video invites. Profiles can also be blocked or flagged for offence or spam with the little red flag symbol. Spammers get kicked off the app really quickly and usually without warning.

9) Unlike other apps, you don't need to match before sending messages. HOWEVER new members start with 20 credits and only 1 free credit accumulates each day. When you initiate a chat with a new person (introducing yourself) 1 credit is consumed. No credits are consumed to reply or keep chatting. THERFORE make sure you have a great profile with thoughtful words and pictures or few people are going to bother replying to your introduction message. Think carefully before initiating contact. Read their profile. Are you what they say they are looking for? If you run out of credits, then 250 credits can be purchased for just $10.

10) Please be respectful and have loads of fun!

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PolyFinda dating and events app 

For the open, polyamorous and poly-curious to find similar minded friends and lovers online and in the real world. 


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