INTIMATE RELATING & POLARITY - Mixed Gender Workshop
Event Information
About this Event
- Are you curious to learn more about masculine and feminine polarity and experience how it plays out in intimate relationships?
- Are you desiring much greater depth of connection and intimacy with yourself and others?
- Have you perhaps found yourself playing roles in your life and relationships such as the rescuer, the people pleaser, the nice guy/good girl or caretaker?
- Do you feel strong in many areas of your life, but when it comes to intimacy you sometimes get taken off centre, feel frustrated, confused or disempowered?
If any of this resonates for you then we invite you to join us on an experiential journey into the core dynamics of intimate relating and the dance of polarity!
You will be guided by Intimate Relating Specialist - EJ Love and Men's Work Facilitator - Bear Nutting who are in a conscious partnership with intimacy and connection as foundational to their lives and relationship. They deeply value play, adventure, curiosity and full self-expression and always bring through playfulness and lightness to their work, whilst also taking people deep!
Mastering your intimate relationships is about having an integration of both the healthy masculine and healthy feminine and then being able to consciously create polarity from this integrated place. This leads to healthy passion, attraction, depth and desire long term!
This is a place where you feel empowered, loved, seen and free to be all of yourself in your most intimate relationships!
Unfortunately we have been conditioned to play roles in our relationships that take us away from the healthy love and intimacy we actually want. These roles create what we call "disempowered polarity" which means we attract people to us to play out these roles and often this leads to triggering rollercoaster relationships or often an unconscious avoidance of having deep intimacy all together.
In this one day immersive workshop we will be exploring:
1. The Difference between "Rolemates" and "Soulmates" - Most people are relating from these conditioned roles and identities that have been keeping themselves from truly opening up and being deeply seen. People often feel like "soulmates", but are actually "rolemates". We will explore knowing and feeling what the difference is and how to transition from rolemate to soulmate.
2. Knowing the Roles you play out in relationships such as the Rescuer, Caretaker, Controller, Nice Guy/Good Girl, People Pleaser, High Achiever, Ice Queen, Victim (and many more) and how they disempower you in both your relationships and your purpose. We will explore how these roles unconsciously sabotage love and push people away as well as attract certain people into your life (usually the ones you don't want!).
3. Shadow Polarity - Underneath every role you play in life lies shadows. These shadows also polarise other people's shadows and roles. We will explore what these shadows are and how to embody your shadow and integrate it into love.
4. Understanding your Attachment Style and how it polarises and deeply impacts your relationships. This is absolutely key to know and understand when it comes to being able to have healthy intimate relationships!
5. Identifying and Releasing the Fears that protect you from experiencing the intimacy and love you want such as the fear of loss/abandonment, betrayal, rejection, hurting someone, losing yourself or losing your freedom.
6. Moving from Disempowered Polarity to Healthy Polarity - There will be a large focus on polarity at this workshop and we will guide you through experiential exercises to help you have an embodied experience of different types of polarities that are played out in relationships.
This one day workshop will be a mix of theory, relating games and embodiment practices. We have a high value for play as a pathway to healing so you can be assured that it will also be fun!
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THE OUTCOME OF DOING THIS WORK
The outcome ultimately depends on how you integrate what you learn back into your life. However, what you can expect is:
- A whole new level of awareness, understanding and clarity of why you experience what you do in intimate relationships and how to navigate any challenges from this new place of awareness
- Having a healthy integrated relationship with your own masculine and feminine and no longer giving you power away as you become the source of your own love and approval
- Have and attract healthy integrated relationships in all areas of your life and experience much deeper intimacy with yourself and with others
- Feel more free to just to show up and be all yourself and not be worried about "being enough" or "being too much"
- Come into deeper alignment with your soul and have this massively impact your purpose as well as your relationships as you become more aligned with who you truly are.
THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR PEOPLE WHO:
- Are either single or in a relationship and desire to have more fulfilling healthy relationships in their lives where they feel more seen, loved and open to receiving.
- Have been running some fears, patterns or roles within relating and want to feel more solid, certain and free to be fully self-expressed in relationships and intimacy.
- Want to interact in person with a tribe of conscious humans who are committed to doing the work, to having amazing intimate relationships and who enjoy experiential fun learning!
- Simply feel called to do this work even if they don’t really know why!
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SCHEDULE:
10am - 7.30pm (NSW time)
VENUE:
1a Tathra Glen
Ocean Shores, NSW
INVESTMENT:
Earlybird (until 28th Feb) - $122
Full Price - $177
Numbers are limited, so we recommend to book well in advance as we expect this event to sell out!
WHAT TO BRING TO THE EVENT
- Water bottle (water will be available to refill them)
- Food for lunch and snacks.
- Notepad and pen
- Cushions and yoga matt to keep comfy
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS:
EJ LOVE is an Intimate Relating Expert and the Author of the International Bestselling Book ‘Become the One’ and has worked in sexuality and conscious relationships for almost 11 years. She has helped thousands of people 1:1, in workshops, retreats and online with empowering themselves.
She has become one of the most credible and sought after Love and Intimacy Experts in Australia. Her work has been featured on Australian and International TV such as the Morning Show, Sunrise and Fox News.
She is a permission granter that is known for her openness, compassion, vulnerability and openly sharing her personal stories that are usually either enlightening or edgy!
BEAR NUTTING is a Men's Empowerment Coach & Facilitator based on the Gold Coast. He has spent over 18 years training and initiating men into their masculinity with the international organisation the Mankind Project.
He has travelled the world as an international performing artist, having performed in front of over a million people and he now brings through this confidence, creative self-expression and playfulness to his work with men to support them to become fully self-expressed versions of themselves.
He's also the founder of the Freedom Warrior Training Camp where he brings through tribal teachings and tells stories from his Maori Culture to connect men with their own culture, ancestry and their inner warrior.
TESTIMONIALS FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE DONE PREVIOUS WORKSHOPS:
"I’ve never heard anyone speak about things I’ve struggled with my whole life in this way. It allows me to work through a lot of the pain I’ve been through with women"
"It really allowed me to receive my partner, it brought us closer together. It helped us work through balancing the masculine/feminine in our relationship and to work through some things from my childhood. It really highlighted the importance of bringing men and women together"
"I just wanted to say again thank you so much for yesterday. The work you do and the energy you teach from is pure, passionate and love filled. I got a lot out of yesterday. The content was all things I was hoping we would cover!"
"It is fantastic you have another workshop running - it's truly one of the greatest workshops I've ever done. I really enjoyed the group we had and I'm stoked I could contribute."
**PLEASE READ BEFORE ATTENDING**
Please stay at home if unwell or have a cough, fever, sore throat, fatigue or shortness of breath.
**COVID RESTRICTIONS**
We are a covid safe event and will be following restrictions, if we have to cancel this event due to any further restrictions, it will still go ahead and be moved to be online via zoom.
**REFUND POLICY**
Due to the restriction of numbers we don't offer refunds, however you are able to transfer your ticket to another person or you can have the amount credited to another event we are running.