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Forest House Cottage

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Glen Forrest, WA 6071


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Cuddle Party

Cuddles, Communication, Consent & Connection

Cuddle party features a safe, supportive space to explore a wide range of nurturing touch and connection experiences.

The first hour or so is a communication workshop in which you will learn how to ask for what you want in a way that it feels like a gift.

You will learn to choose; say yes and no and even change your mind in a graceful way.

This is followed by a couple of hours of free-style cuddling where you get to practice the skills learned in the workshop.

You will leave with a greater understanding and connection with YOU, and perhaps a few others who you may have not even met yet.


The Cuddle Party lasts for about 4 hours:

Doors open at 1 pm

1pm - 1:30pm arrive, check in and put on pyjamas. Please bring clean, comfy, cuddly clothes. Also, bringing a snack and cuddle accessories to share is welcomed :)

1:30pm – 2:30pm The Welcome Circle. Attendees MUST be present for the whole welcome circle to participate. If you are not here by 1:30pm and have not called, you may not be able to participate. My phone number is 0427 968 385.

2:30pm – 4:45pm Freestyle practice time with affectionate nurturing touch - what we call "Cuddling".

4:45pm – 5pm Closing circle, and goodbyes.

Questions? Call Vanessa @ 0427 968 385


The Rules of "Cuddling"

The rules are tried and true, and there’s a logic to them that goes deeper than you might think to create a safe, fun environment for people to connect. At a Cuddle Party event the first hour or so includes an explanation of the rules that you can use every day. Intrigued? Come check it out!

ARRIVE ON TIME: Once we begin the Welcome Circle and orientation, sorry, we can let no one enter late. This creates comfort and safety by knowing that everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.

WHAT TO WEAR: Pyjamas or sweats– nothing too risqué. Think more comfy than sexy. (More drawstrings, less lace! No short-shorts or nighties please.)

WHAT TO BRING: Sorry, no liquor folks. Juice, kombucha or sparkling non-alcoholic cider is always welcome as are veganish treats and snacks to share. Sorry no nuts or dairy, or strong perfumes, for the health, safety and comfort of everyone. A pillow or stuffed animal if you like. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.

Herbal teas and water are provided with some vegan nourishment.


Pyjamas stay on the whole time.
You don’t have to touch anyone at a cuddle party, ever.
You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)
If you’re a yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.
If you’re a maybe, say NO.
You are encouraged to change your mind.
Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.
Get your Facilitator or the Assistant if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the event.
Tears and laughter are both welcome.
Respect people’s privacy
Keep the Cuddle space tidy


Please book ALL tickets online using Eventbrite. ALL tickets are $30.
Options to pay:

1) Select "Cuddle Party Attendee" to pay using creditcard (+ small fee)

2) select "Cuddle Party Attendee Cash or Direct" to pay $30 cash at the door OR direct transfer through your bank to mine - Axis Mundi Coaching Pty Ltd bsb 036-011 ac# 489846 (please text or email me when this is done).

Even if you are paying with cash, booking online is essential to receive the email with the full address and the reminder of the details for the event. Upon registration you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your ticket and some super important information about the event and how to get to the venue. Please read this in full.

Bookings on the day are not encouraged. Please register early to guarantee a spot and to receive the email in time to plan your journey. There is no refund or credit if you don’t show up. However, if you come and then leave after the welcome circle you will receive a complete refund (Sorry no refunds on eventbrite fees).

If you feel drawn to come and find the cost out of your reach please email or give me a call.

Please direct your questions to Vanessa 0427 968 385 or contact@vanessakvance.com


  1. Are there minimum age requirements to enter the event? Yes, this event is for adults aged 18 years and over
  2. Will there be a balance of men and women at this event? Gender balancing is hard to achieve on a consistent basis and I do not believe gender balancing makes for a better space, plus gender is a construct anyway! Yes it is OK to have your preferences for whom you want to exchange touch with. You never have to cuddle at a Cuddle Party, ever, and you are welcome to leave after the welcome circle and receive a full refund, however I trust the organic nature of who shows up and that exploring your authentic yes and no with people you wouldn't normally interact with can be insightful and growthful.
  3. Do I have to Cuddle? No. Rule 2 specifically states that no one has to cuddle at a cuddle party, ever. However "cuddling" may look like a head massage, a foot rub, holding a hand, a full body spoon, or a good conversation at a comfortable distance between bodies. The kind of touch you would like to receive or give is totally up to you and the welcome circle gives you great tools to navigate that with others. Cuddle Party is also about consent, communication and connection, which can all happen without any touch at all!
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