BDSM101 - BDSM FOR BEGINNERS // 5HR WORKSHOP

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Tiki as FK

91a James Street

Northbridge, WA 6003

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Learn The Right Way To Bring Kink Into Your Bedroom...
Without Ending Up In the Emergency Room, the Police Station or Divorce Court

Learn The Safe, Sane And Consensual Way into BDSM for Beginners


IN THIS 5 HOUR LIVE WORKSHOP YOU WILL LEARN:

OTKDaddy will be presenting 3 Workshops on the day, each one designed to build on the knowledge from the previous session.

First we start with the basics...

Workshop 1: BDSM for Beginners 101 (90 mins)

The first 90 minutes are going to be a deep dive into the basics you need to know to enjoy the hot fantasy of BDSM - without needing an ambulance or the paramedics or the police ... and without ending up in divorce court!

If you have ever wondered how to be a Dom, either male or female - or how to be a submissive - then this workshop is for you.

We will cover:

  • What is Consent and how can it be sexy and spontaneous?
  • Learning the difference between Dominance and Domineering - so you can spot a toxic relationship a mile off, and get out of it!
  • What is a 'Dynamic' and is it the same as a 'Relationship'
  • Is Vanilla a brand of ice-cream?
  • Do I really have to wear this collar thing? What's that all about?
  • SSC, RACK, Scene, Play Partner - please decode the jargon for me so I can play safe
  • What is a Safe Word and when do I use it? Does it mean I have failed?
  • How to create 'Space' for a scene
  • The structure of a Scene - Before, During, Ending and Aftercare
  • How to manage Sub Drop and Top Drop (Yes Dom's get 'drop' too)

Short 15 minute break...

Then we move into the more advanced areas and get our hands on some equipment, so you can learn the actual techniques and skills to play safely.

Workshop 2: Hands On Workshop (90 mins)

It's time to get HANDS ON! This is where you will get familiar with the various implements we use, including whips, floggers, canes, paddles and feather dusters.

  • Impact Play Basics
  • Warm Up and After Care
  • Rituals and 'Setting the Space'
  • How to 'Hold Dominant Space' for beginners
  • Cleaning Up and Equipment Care
  • Meet My Amazing Cross
  • Cuffs, restraints and being locked down
  • Spanking techniques to excite and ignite
  • The 'Sweet Spot' And How to Find It (yes another 'spot' to find)
  • Why canes 'bite twice'
  • Flogging for warm up, intensity and impact - impress your sub with your dramatic flair skills
  • Single tail whips and high intensity pain sensations
  • Sharp edges and points for immediate focus and endorphins
  • How to take your sub on a 'roller coaster' - its not all about the impact!

Longer 30 minute break...

Feel free to bring your own toys if you like, but there will be a full selection of implements to explore with on hand.

Workshop 3: Loving Partners in Kink (90 mins)

Not everyone starts their journey with the luxury of having a supportive, understanding and kinky partner, so here's where we explore the best way to introduce kink into your life and bedroom.

  • How to bring kink into your bedroom without causing a fight or ending up in divorce court!
  • What if you are kinky but your partner isnt interested?
  • What to do when your kinks are not compatible?
  • Opening up negotiation and exploring limits
  • What is 24/7 Total Power Exchange and is it for you?
  • What to expect at a Play Party - at someone's private residence
  • What to expect at a Public Party
  • Behaviour and etiquette at Events
  • Safe Dates for meeting new Play Partners

Short 15 minute break...

Extended Question and Answers

Although we will be answering your questions throughout, the remaining time at the end is when OTKDaddy can zero in on the specific issues or questions you are facing. Setting off on your kink journey is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely hard coming out to a partner or family or friends. We set this time aside to listen to your situation and come up with workable solutions for you to apply in your own life.

Light refreshments will be provided, and a full bar is available throughout.

CLASS SIZE STRICTLY LIMITED TO 25 PERSONS ONLY

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91a James Street

Northbridge, WA 6003

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